sorry guys, it's reached that time again where i write an out of character post about something that i just need to get off my chest. expect bad structure and a bit of a ramble...
but before i begin, let me point out that my problem isn't solely about the men, it's about you girls. it's about you weak, mislead girls that make all us stronger, level-headed ones get overlooked and have to clean up after the messes you make.
Jessie J - Do It Like A Dude
so, why do you girls do it? why do you give any of those guys who mistreated you the time of day? you are beautiful and they are not worth it... actually, it's not even that they are not worth you, they are not meant for you.
spend some time finding yourself, show those guys out there what they are missing and i promise you will find someone who is utterly perfect for you and it will all be SO EASY.
you shouldn't have to chase after ANYONE, ever!
think back to one of those times where you have tried to make an ex of yours jealous. personally, i have never done this, but i'm sure some of you out there have. to the bunch who have seen the movie waynes world, think of stacey. to the rest of you, conjure up in your mind an ex of yours stumbling over to you, making out with some random girl, blatantly trying to piss you off..
now, i have had this happen to me. and i just thought they were a loser, "i broke up with them - why would i care?" kinda of thing. so what makes you think that trying to make someone jealous is a good idea? it never is. and your just lowering your own personal value which you SHOULDN'T ever do because you are all gorgeous HIGH VALUE human beings.
and i just find it so sad that i know so many girls who do this, lower their value for men.
i know girls who cook dinner for their boyfriends everyday, wash their clothes, they may as well pick out their outfits and dress them everyday while they're at it too. it is that ridiculous and they don't even get a fucking thank you, all they get in return is a perfectly comfortable and spoiled boyfriend who has forgotten how to give a shit about the one they supposedly 'love'.
there's my girls who have allowed themselves to be booty calls, going to the boys house at the early hours of the morning just for a hump-n-dump-athon.
and the girls who still can't let go of their ex's that just stroll in and out of their lives whenever they please, hurting them over and over again...
why are you all doing this to yourselves?!
i know it's fucking hard but all you need is a little self control. i recently had to say goodbye to someone i cared quite deeply for, because i was not being respected. and now, i couldn't be HAPPIER (and good riddance to them). i have only just turned 21 and i can hold my head up proudly and say i do not lesser myself for any man.
and i am not saying that this outlook on life does not leave you heart broken, you can't help heart break sometimes. but believe me, it helps you learn. it helps you learn about yourself more than anything. and if you do this YOU WILL GET NOTHING BUT RESPECT from all men, and your fellow woman too.
this is why i started girls club. girls club isn't just a shitty pop night that goes down at the mothers ruin once a month. it's my fucking gospel. why do you think i love all those pop songs so much? do you even listen to what all these powerful female artists are trying to tell you?!
they are giving all they have got to make sure they have a voice in this world, a voice that you should all be listening to because they are trying to make you stronger.
do it like nicki minaj and STEP YO' PUSSIES UP, bitches. you are fucking VIP and if just any old dick can say he has had you, you're not a true HIGH CLASS female... you're not in our club.
do it like beyonce and tell him that if he like it, then he shoulda put a ring on it - you will NOT be a booty call. you will be loved and appreciated.
do it like rihanna and ditch the abusive boys who are stepping all over your heart. your stronger than that, you deserve to feel like the only girl in the world.
do it like gaga and put yourself and your own personal interests first;
"some women choose to follow men, and some women choose to follow their dreams. if you're wondering which way to go, remember that your career will never wake up and tell you that it doesn't love you anymore."
do it like jessie j and do it like a FUCKING dude and show them we don't need to take their bullshit. they think we can't get hurt like them, SHOW THEM WE WONT. they are not worth our tears.
i mean, literally, when i listen to this jessie j tune i sing along with grinded teeth, i get SO aggressive and into it, i imagine i'm on stage singing it to all those fucking twats who hurt me or anyone else. and i just want to pull up all the insecure girls of the world on stage with me and we can all tell them to fuck off together. now that's girls club.
ANYWAY, jessie j is playing at thekla this saturday. which i am massively looking forward to. i have sexy time the same night but i am gonna find out the exact time she's on stage, leg it there in my sexy elf outfit and leg it back to the ruin in time to DJ. i suggest you all do the same ;)
also, i am leaving for london tomorrow so maybe not a blog post for a bit. LADY GAGA tomorrow, you know.. xxx
but before i begin, let me point out that my problem isn't solely about the men, it's about you girls. it's about you weak, mislead girls that make all us stronger, level-headed ones get overlooked and have to clean up after the messes you make.
the reason why men act and treat us the way they do is because of girls like you.
Jessie J - Do It Like A Dude
so, why do you girls do it? why do you give any of those guys who mistreated you the time of day? you are beautiful and they are not worth it... actually, it's not even that they are not worth you, they are not meant for you.
spend some time finding yourself, show those guys out there what they are missing and i promise you will find someone who is utterly perfect for you and it will all be SO EASY.
you shouldn't have to chase after ANYONE, ever!
think back to one of those times where you have tried to make an ex of yours jealous. personally, i have never done this, but i'm sure some of you out there have. to the bunch who have seen the movie waynes world, think of stacey. to the rest of you, conjure up in your mind an ex of yours stumbling over to you, making out with some random girl, blatantly trying to piss you off..
now, i have had this happen to me. and i just thought they were a loser, "i broke up with them - why would i care?" kinda of thing. so what makes you think that trying to make someone jealous is a good idea? it never is. and your just lowering your own personal value which you SHOULDN'T ever do because you are all gorgeous HIGH VALUE human beings.
and i just find it so sad that i know so many girls who do this, lower their value for men.
i know girls who cook dinner for their boyfriends everyday, wash their clothes, they may as well pick out their outfits and dress them everyday while they're at it too. it is that ridiculous and they don't even get a fucking thank you, all they get in return is a perfectly comfortable and spoiled boyfriend who has forgotten how to give a shit about the one they supposedly 'love'.
there's my girls who have allowed themselves to be booty calls, going to the boys house at the early hours of the morning just for a hump-n-dump-athon.
and the girls who still can't let go of their ex's that just stroll in and out of their lives whenever they please, hurting them over and over again...
why are you all doing this to yourselves?!
i know it's fucking hard but all you need is a little self control. i recently had to say goodbye to someone i cared quite deeply for, because i was not being respected. and now, i couldn't be HAPPIER (and good riddance to them). i have only just turned 21 and i can hold my head up proudly and say i do not lesser myself for any man.
and i am not saying that this outlook on life does not leave you heart broken, you can't help heart break sometimes. but believe me, it helps you learn. it helps you learn about yourself more than anything. and if you do this YOU WILL GET NOTHING BUT RESPECT from all men, and your fellow woman too.
this is why i started girls club. girls club isn't just a shitty pop night that goes down at the mothers ruin once a month. it's my fucking gospel. why do you think i love all those pop songs so much? do you even listen to what all these powerful female artists are trying to tell you?!
they are giving all they have got to make sure they have a voice in this world, a voice that you should all be listening to because they are trying to make you stronger.
do it like nicki minaj and STEP YO' PUSSIES UP, bitches. you are fucking VIP and if just any old dick can say he has had you, you're not a true HIGH CLASS female... you're not in our club.
do it like beyonce and tell him that if he like it, then he shoulda put a ring on it - you will NOT be a booty call. you will be loved and appreciated.
do it like rihanna and ditch the abusive boys who are stepping all over your heart. your stronger than that, you deserve to feel like the only girl in the world.
do it like gaga and put yourself and your own personal interests first;
"some women choose to follow men, and some women choose to follow their dreams. if you're wondering which way to go, remember that your career will never wake up and tell you that it doesn't love you anymore."
do it like jessie j and do it like a FUCKING dude and show them we don't need to take their bullshit. they think we can't get hurt like them, SHOW THEM WE WONT. they are not worth our tears.
i mean, literally, when i listen to this jessie j tune i sing along with grinded teeth, i get SO aggressive and into it, i imagine i'm on stage singing it to all those fucking twats who hurt me or anyone else. and i just want to pull up all the insecure girls of the world on stage with me and we can all tell them to fuck off together. now that's girls club.
ANYWAY, jessie j is playing at thekla this saturday. which i am massively looking forward to. i have sexy time the same night but i am gonna find out the exact time she's on stage, leg it there in my sexy elf outfit and leg it back to the ruin in time to DJ. i suggest you all do the same ;)
also, i am leaving for london tomorrow so maybe not a blog post for a bit. LADY GAGA tomorrow, you know.. xxx
I dig, well said.
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ReplyDeletelucky girl! you are really amazing with big eyebrow!
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